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My husband has been having an affair with a woman for about 2 years. I decided to stick it out with him because I felt he was going through a mid-life crisis. I took the infidelity but the baby is more than I can take. We have been married for 25 years and have been together for I just don't see how our marriage will work. Post reply.

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How will getting another woman pregnant affect my divorce?

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While separated my husband had a fling and the woman got pregnant. She searched long till she found him, called my in laws and begged them to ask him to get in touch, which he did but denied responsibility and didn't want anything to do with her. Now he was forced by court to do a paternity test in order to pay child support.

He's still awaiting the results. Long story short, the woman tracked me down too, was very disrespectful and demanded we accommodate the child into the family. Big deal is this is the first time I heard of the situation as my husband and in laws hid it from me " in order to protect me and my children" My husband refuses to acknowledge the child and wants nothing other than to pay child support should he be the father. So do his parents. All sides keep giving different versions of the story. Any advise for me?

Last few days have been hell, how do I heal? My only advise is, be happy you got out and separated from him. You can now move on to find someone who treats you how you deserve to be treated. In the future, your kids will probably be a part of this new child's life though, so it may be good to make amends there?

Possibly down the road when all are healed. What is your husband ex doing to stay in your children's lives and the new child's? He may deny all he wants but that's what tests are for. We were separated and then got back together. He only slept with her once and never saw her again. Then the call came. He doesn't want to lose us and doesn't want to be involved in that child's life, should he turn out to be the father.

He wants to only pay child support should they require that. My inlaws also refuse to acknowledge the child. They want nothing to do with both the mother and child. We are still married but this has rocked things, I'm not the type to accept such a situation as me and my kids don't deserve to have our lives turned upside down just because they chose to be lazy about birth control. And you're okay with him treating his child this way?

His family also? Doesn't show much good character on his or their part. If it were me, I wouldn't have taken him back but everyone's different and I'm sure you have your reasons.

But what I honestly think is that child deserves to know his father and siblings and it's too bad he took equal part in creating that baby and now can't man up and be responsible. I'm sorry but, child support doesn't make up for it. Truly sad No, you didn't deserve this either, but he didn't bother thinking about that. He is selfish and I think instead of excusing his behavior, you should tell him to hit the road. Good luck, I wish you strength dealing with this drama the rest of your life because he had to have one night of fun.

I found out a few days ago, this happened in December , we got back together in January and decided to give our marriage another try. We just had a baby too and it's understandable we are all shocked and unhappy. If I tell him to hit the road, my kids will end up having their home destroyed, they didn't ask for a sibling, they have each other. That woman has other kids of her own too. I'm not excusing his actions I just won't accept it for me and my kids.

I'm mad at him too, but it wasn't a relationship. Why agree to be irresponsible by someone you hardly know and wreck peoples lives and want pity and to play the victim. That baby, me and my kids and grandparents are the victims. Our lives were alright until this happened.

I'm so hurt. It's not fair to the child I know that. I've told them so too, but quite frankly I would rather give him to her than play big happy families I'm really up for no drama, so I'd rather leave than accept the situation. Blair, I understand how you feel but I think the choice is yours and it is going to boil down to this: Either accept the situation as it is or leave.

The situation isn't going to go away, there's now another child in the picture, which belongs to your husband and is now your two children's siblings. You don't think they are going to want to grow up knowing their sibling? I know he made a mistake, but now that the mistake is made, how it is being handled is what matters.

Your husband is not handling it with good character at all, expecting to shut the child out of your lives completely. That child doesn't deserve that. He knows how to man up, take responsibility and be a Dad. My advice. Yes, seriously. I am currently going through the 3rd year.. Hasn't been anywhere close to easy, it hurts, it lingers, it burns The mom is a bitter control freak and has withheld the child from him on numerous occasions.

I seem to automatically find fault in everything she does, regardless to what it is or what i try to minimize.. Doesn't make it easier that he doesn't exactly keep me in the loop at all times.. But that's only 1 of them. Out of so many! It's been a constant battle here for too long and I'm wishing I had really considered this over 3 years ago when I took him back , knowing she was pregnant. I thought I loved him enough to accept this , beings we weren't together at the time and he was up front about it.

Bad move! That's my advice.. I truly tip my hat to the women that are able to set there personal feelings aside for the sake of the child. Unfortunately I am not one of those women. My husband of 22 years cheated and while we were seperated he fathered a child with another woman.

We are currently living in two separate homes because I hold such resentment in my heart. I refuse to be in the child's presence.

I know it may sound petty and maybe even juvenile, but I truly feel some type of way. We are in a good place regarding reconciliation but I can't move past the fact that there is a child involved. We had a lovely weekend and I planned to see him mid week until he told me he had to watch the child. When moments like that happen. It's like my emotions get snatched in the opposite direction of the way I truly want to feel. I'm upset to the point of silence. I have nothing to say to him and generally it takes me a few days to get right.

Like Really it's the worse. I don't know what's going to happen with us, but i do know that step mother is not a title I will ever be okay with. I am in a similar situation and this girl is actually still pregnant so of course we have to have a DNA test and everything but it's very hard to deal with. I feel like she is throwing it in my face and she contacted me and I tried go be cordial but we still had an altercation non physical just verbal anyway I have decided to stick by him.

I know he regrets it and he is hurting too. I cannot fathom seeing another child around us and it takes the thrill out of our future.

However I do want to stay with him. I definitely wouldn't allow it to ruin your marriage. Just talk to him about it and let him know who You feel and what you expect. How do U feel about him Not wanting to be in the child's life? I know if this baby belongs to my boyfriend he will be involved and I'm not sure if I can stomach it but right now I'm willing to try.

You have the choice to walk away if it's too much. That's where I am with it right now. I've been married to my husband for 20 years. In I briefly walked away from my marriage.

During the brief separation, we both started dating but we were still spending time together as well. I knew during the separation my husband was devastated and wanted me back. But I wasn't ready? He started dating a single mother 10 years younger than me.

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This article applies to parentage of non-marital children born during a marriage between opposite-sex spouses. This includes a child born to a woman who is married but whose husband is not the biological father. This article talks about what to do if you are getting a divorce, and a non-marital child was born during your marriage.

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My husband got fired while we were separated and he was living in another state. Separated, husband living with another woman. He was very honest about the entire situation, and in all fairness he knew I was involved with someone else at the time. Ditto my friend. For some reason I stopped him from talking to the police which would've gotten him arrested, but that was the first time he got into trouble of that nature and I thought he'd change, NOPE!

We were separated and he got another woman pregnant

I am going to get a divorce because of my infidelity , which resulted in my girlfriend becoming pregnant. How will this pregnancy with another woman affect my divorce? Are there paternity laws I should consider? In the state I practice in Illinois , the alleged marital fault or misconduct of either party is not considered in the division of property or in awards of maintenance. Therefore, the pregnancy will not have any direct effect on the terms of the final judgment entered in your divorce. While marital misconduct cannot be considered in the division of property or awards of maintenance, adultery committed subsequent to the marriage is one of the grounds for divorce in Illinois. Therefore, while you indicate that you intend to pursue a divorce from your wife in the future, she may seek a divorce now alleging adultery as the grounds. You do not indicate whether you have children with your wife, but if you do, you may be obligated to pay child support for the children. In addition, you may be also obligated to pay support for the unborn child, including health insurance coverage for the child, and pregnancy and delivery costs of the mother. The timing of filing and obtaining a divorce judgment can be critical to issues of custody, support, and division of assets and debts.

While separated my husband had a fling and the woman got pregnant. She sear...

While separated my husband had a fling and the woman got pregnant. She searched long till she found him, called my in laws and begged them to ask him to get in touch, which he did but denied responsibility and didn't want anything to do with her. Now he was forced by court to do a paternity test in order to pay child support. He's still awaiting the results. Long story short, the woman tracked me down too, was very disrespectful and demanded we accommodate the child into the family.

Wives, knowing what your husband has done with the OW, does not have to ruin your marriage. I said absolutely!

By Dana W. Several years ago, I had a client who was in a very unhappy marriage. She and her husband had one child.

Will it be held against me if I get another woman pregnant before my divorce is final?

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To make a long story short, me and my husband split up in Jan and by April he had another girl pregnant. I found out and told him that I would stay by his side as a friend. The girl claimed that she was getting an abortion, and that is when we got back together. Now that the girl has changed her mind and is going to have it. It changes the whole game between us.

Non-Marital Children Born or Conceived During a Marriage

Join now to personalize. My husband got another woman pregnant. My husband got another woman pregnant and the child is now a year old. It put great strain on us at first but after long talks, I told him that I would not come between him and his son as long as the affair is over with her. But since the child was a month old, he stopped going to see the child on his own with no influence on me. Its like talking about the baby in our house is bad. He doesnt like to discuss him with me.

Attorney Erin Brockhoff discusses how getting another woman pregnant can I am going to get a divorce because of my infidelity, which resulted in my While marital misconduct cannot be considered in the division of property or Ask A Divorce Lawyer: Does a post-separation affair have any bearing on the settlement?

Enjoying your new role as teacher?! I got separated from my partner of 10 years with whom we have a beautiful daughter. After our first year of separation I met this guy with whom I tried to remake a family for almost 2 years, but didnt workout. At the end of that relatioship, I found out I was pregnant.

My husband got another woman pregnant while we were separated she is married xm

You might have already suspected your wife having an extra-marital affair but without meeting the elements of adultery and not presenting any tangible evidence will render accusations useless. The woman is married; 2. The woman had sexual intercourse with a man not her husband; 3.

Jump to navigation. You need to complete the forms, sign them in front of a notary public and file them,. You have the right to an interpreter.

I frequently get questions from potential clients about what are the effects of adultery in the outcome of a divorce. Texas is a no fault divorce state which essentially means that neither party necessarily has to prove the other did something "wrong" causing the divorce.




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