I want a man to control me
Most women do it subconsciously. And most men accept that frame without even realizing they are being the one-down in the relationship. This article explains exactly how women control men, and what men can do to break free of that control. They take charge and subjugate men by taking the judge role in the relationship.SEE VIDEO BY TOPIC: Of Monsters and Men - Alligator (Official Video)
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Allowing men to take the lead sometimes helps men stay committed to the relationship. Helping a man feel like a conqueror will help him want to stay committed. It may sound odd to women, but it can be easier than you may think. When a man feels that he has this type of woman, he will go the extra mile to stay committed because he sees her as an asset to his life.
Men love to feel like a woman will do something out of her comfort zone for us. For instance, a man wants to take on a task that you see is menial. If a woman makes him fight or justify it, then she may cause him to flee. Allowing him to do it without hassle, and trusting that he is a faithful man who simply needs to conquer something, will make all the difference in the world.
That makes him feel like a conqueror and that he has a ride-or-die type of woman. Little do most women know that a small task like pushing the elevator button can be important to a man.
We have all been in the elevator when a little boy gets in and wants to push the elevator button and his mom lets him do it. What seems like such a menial thing to a woman can be a task of conquering for a man. I used to have a girlfriend that battled me on simple issues like where we parked when we went somewhere. To her she had just as much right to pick the parking place as I did.
While she was in the right to voice her opinion about the parking decision, battling me over an issue where I needed to feel like a conqueror only served to cause me to try harder to conquer. For a while I pleaded my case to her and tried to get her to understand that little things were important to me as a man. But she decided that it was more important to her that we were equal in all decisions and in the long run, our relationship was lost in her conquest. However, my next girlfriend saw that this was important to me, so instead, she placed her concerns on making sure that we were always on time and as long as we were safe, she allowed me to choose the parking without hassle.
Again, it may sound like no big deal to a woman, but making that small decision helped me to feel like I had conquered, and in return, I made sure I accommodated her desire to always be on time. Those little nuances serve to remind a man how valuable a woman is in the moments where he may tire of commitment. When a man is single or cheating, he can have sex at random or whenever he wants it.
As I said earlier what many women may not see is that for a faithful man, being committed to a relationship gives us a sense of entitlement to sex. Ladies, I understand that men always want sex and that can be inconvenient for a woman. This causes a lot of men to pull away over time and want to get out of the commitment where he is faced with such restriction. Instead of completely turning him away, another approach is for a woman to negotiate without him knowing.
This helps him feel like he can have it if he wants, but that she will fulfill his larger desire if he nurtures her needs as well. As women find themselves at these little crossroads every day in relationships with faithful men, they can keep us engaged in commitment by allowing us the small things that make us feel like conquerors.
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Allowing men to take the lead sometimes helps men stay committed to the relationship. Helping a man feel like a conqueror will help him want to stay committed. It may sound odd to women, but it can be easier than you may think.
Why would a woman stay in a relationship with a guy who puts her down, hems her in, and perhaps even physically abuses her? Why would a woman hold down two jobs to keep the rent paid and food on the table while her boyfriend sits around smoking weed all day? If you wonder why on earth you stay with the guy who keeps hurting you in spite of promises to do better, in spite of protestations that he loves you, in spite of your obvious distress about how things are going, see if you recognize yourself in any of these common reasons. But please be careful not to jump to conclusions based on a list.
Why Women Stay with Controlling Men
Men want commitment. They really are not that confusing but will only commit to a woman who is not out to control him with man-management. Men do not need someone to control and mother them and when this happens it is an instant turn-off. Nor do men want a woman who is at all needy or desperate for him to be the source of her happiness. So what makes men tick and how you can you empower yourself to have the relationship you want? You get to decide what you want and let him know in simple and direct ways. Communicate with him not about what you want him to do or change but rather with what you do and don't want for yourself. The minute a man feels you're trying to change him or tell him what to do you have lost his attraction. So, be clear on what you do and don't want for yourself and tell him directly.
The Secret to Keeping Him Committed, from a Guy’s Point of View
The prolific author of more than one hundred books, Diana Palmer got her start as a newspaper reporter. A New York Times bestselling author and voted one of the top ten romance writers in America, she has a gift for telling the most sensual tales with charm and humor. Diana lives with her family in Cornelia, Georgia. New York Times Bestselling author Maisey Yates lives in rural Oregon with her three children and her husband, whose chiseled jaw and arresting features continue to make her swoon. She feels the epic trek she takes several times a day from her office to her coffee maker is a true example of her pioneer spirit.
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